Emiratis advised to not wed foreign women

Renowned lawyer cites social, legal and financial complications following such marriages

UAE nationals have been advised to not marry foreign women due to social, legal and financial complications that arise following such marriages, said a renowned lawyer.

Speaking at the Noor Dubai Radio, Isa bin Haider, CEO of Bin Haider Advocates & Legal Consultants in the UAE, said there are a large number of cases pending before the courts due to such marriages.

He pointed out that young men marry foreign women not to make family but to get rich. But if the husband's income gets depleted, foreign wives create problems, which lead to court cases.

Bin Haider urged UAE youth to marry Emarati women who follow the same traditions and customs as men.

He also advised young nationals not to make big commitments with regard to alimony at the time of marriage and follow the rules.

He said a decree by His Highness Sheikh Khalifa bin Zayed Al Nahyan, President of the UAE, fixed it at  Dh50,000, which applies only in case of marriages with Emirati women.

While the marriages of UAE nationals with foreign women will be subject to what was agreed upon in the marriage contract with regard to alimony.

Bin Haider also informed that second marriages have additional financial burdens, leading young men deeper into debt.

He called for dialogues between couples and urged resorting to solving family problems through discussions and listening to other party’s concerns. He emphasised that if a husband listens to a wife’s grievances, it will help solve a number of family problems and will lead to a happy life.

According to the National Center for Statistics, most of the marriages by UAE nationals with foreign wives end in divorce. For instance, there were 1,798 marriages with foreigners in UAE last year, and 695, or 39 per cent, of these marriages ended in divorce.

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  • sinela 18 October 2012 19:17 3 1
    can you control your feeling? if u meet your soulmate even he or she is in south africa or north america. someday they gonna meet , they will get married.
  • maryam ibrahim 9 July 2012 21:59 2 0
    as a child of mixed Emirati and English heritage noone should control your feelings and marriage, people have struggled all over the world to prove their love for each other when belonging to a different country or race in other places, why should the UAE be an exception?
  • Luiz from Brazil 8 June 2012 05:23 0 0
    I think if a man or woman learns enough about the Islamic culture (that is beautiful) and convert to the Islam for long time, I see no problems. I agree on keeping the culture and religion, but anyone can follow any religion and culture. I just think there are two things about approaching the UAE... 1 - It's the more free Islamic country. 2 - PETRO-DOLLARS.
  • ummpa 23 January 2012 13:55 2 9
    Yes, It's true. not to marry foreigners.
  • Mohammed 23 January 2012 09:25 5 0
    Guys please read the title, its an advice, no restrictions. No religion or law restricts marraige to be nationality specific. @Princess, wish you all the best but keep in mind that marraige is a sacrifice, a commitment and an agreement sometimes solely and sometimes mutually.
  • Ahmed 22 January 2012 17:38 1 0
    I think national males are allowed to marry other nationalities whereas national females are not? Please correct me if i'm wrong.
  • Hajer 22 January 2012 17:20 7 0
    What can you do if you fall in love with a person that is Emirati and he loves a non-national? You agree on same things and are soulmates to each other... it just doesn't matter anymore from where you marry, important is love, ppl.
  • Princess 22 January 2012 17:19 5 0
    Well, I want to prove everyone wrong who has misperception about Emiratis marrying expatriates... so my first step... I want to marry Emirati man and inshallah it will last forever.
  • Rami 22 January 2012 17:12 5 2
    David you are right. Social experts have said many times a large part of the divorces in the UAE involve Emirati couples... this is because most of these marriages are not based on any love but social restrictions which force men to marry female relatives whom they don't know... even their faces. I believe an Emirati marrying a foreigner will produce healthier and more intelligent children.
  • Hamayoon Mubtakir 22 January 2012 16:47 2 6
    I am a foreigner living in the UAE for the last 6 years. I have noticed that not only have these marriages proven to be unsuccessful, the children of such mix-couples do not represent the actual value, culture and the reputation that the original Emiratis stand for. If such marriages are not controlled and stopped, the UAE will lose it's reputation, in the years to come for what it stands.
  • Moh'd 22 January 2012 16:40 9 0
    So Emiratis will continue to marry each other, not expanding the gene pool, thereby aggravating gene-related diseases. I think it's bad to put restrictions on marriage, whether it's due to nationality, religion, or whatever. If two people want to marry, they should be able to, then it's up to them to face the consequences of that, including a possible divorce.
  • David 22 January 2012 16:32 13 0
    From the article: According to the National Center for Statistics, most of the marriages by UAE nationals with foreign wives end in divorce. For instance, there were 1,798 marriages with foreigners in UAE last year, and 695, or 39 per cent, of these marriages ended in divorce. 39% is not 'most'. It is a minority and this figure is actually better than Emirati/Emirati marriages, where 48% end in divorce.
  • Amena 22 January 2012 15:40 2 0
    There are indeed strong marriages between people of different religions and cultures, but only when based on true feelings and commitment. If it is only for beauty and easy wealth, as Ameer Ali said... then one should have the guts to pay the price for that.
  • ameer ali 22 January 2012 13:12 0 0
    I think it's very good advice as marriage is forever and the basis of society. I dont have more experience, anyway youth will think only about the present (beauty, money etc). After a period of time, it's essential to have someone to look after
  • Ahmed 22 January 2012 10:24 5 0
    @ Arabiantxn but isn't love blind?
  • Arabiantxn 21 January 2012 07:21 1 15
    Its just stupid to marry someone out of your culture and religion.

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