How short a dress is 'too short' for wearing at UAE malls

Emirates 24|7 takes to the shop floors to hear what Dubai residents and tourists have to say

Residents of, and tourists to Dubai are being forced to re-evaluate their wardrobe choices, with modesty back on the agenda.

As the debate on a decent dress code in public that meets UAE norms and respects rages, Emirati women have turned to social media platforms to confront what they believe is inappropriate clothing in public areas like malls.

Emirates 24|7 visited the scenes of crime, the malls, to see just what people in the battlefield are wearing and have to say.

"Oh, I might not be the right person to ask," says a Thai lady who turned shy when asked for her opinion about a dress code in malls.

The lady is wearing shorts, high above the knee but just about covering the more private parts of a woman's body. "I guess it is just too hot for me here, and these clothes are very comfortable for this weather."

Kathy, an American woman is not too not shy to show her legs. However, when asked about a dress code also Kathy says, "In Ramadan I do cover up more," she admits.

In fact, nobody seems to lack the understanding.

"I would not feel offended when somebody told me to cover up more," says Kathy. "I try to balance between comfort and consideration of others, but if I am not considerate enough I am willing to change that."

"Anything that is worn to show off private body parts is improper," says Girlie, a Filipino girl working in the mall.

"Anything that is worn to attract," says Abdullah, a tourist from Bahrain.

"Anything that devaluates the woman, and makes her look cheap," says CH, a British resident of Dubai.

According to many, a lot would need to be done to instigate change.

"Right now nobody is really enforcing the rules, and people are pushing their freedom further and further," says Lesley, a British woman who has been living in the UAE for the past 20 years.

"I think I would respond to a fashion-police, but the signs that are in place right now are not very convincing. It is more an announcement, and it does not give me the impression that it really needs to be applied," says the Thai woman.

Naeem Al Balooshi, an Emirati who works at the customer service desk in the Mall of the Emirates says he gets a lot of complaints, especially from local women who feel uncomfortable with the scarcely-dressed mall-goers.

"But what can we do?" In the end, all people are our customers, regardless of what they wear."

Naeem does not believe enforcing the rules would be the right thing to do.

"It is something that should come from people living in another country. They should respect local customs. But if they don't, we cannot force them."

Aliyah and Mariam, two teenage Emiratis agree. "Enforcing the rules is a step too far. As the younger generation, we are open-minded, and we are not that much bothered by it."

According to Naaem, it is mostly residents rather than tourists that tend to cross the fragile line between what is appropriate and what is not.

"I did not know about any dress code, but I deliberately packed my longer dresses to come to Dubai," says Guinevere from South Africa, who is here in vacation.

"I asked my friend what was done and what was not before I came to visit here," says Nina Knaap from the Netherlands.

"I think it is a matter of people following suit. They see that people around them are getting more and more liberal in their clothing, so they think it is OK," says the British Lesley.

[UAE dresscode debate trends on twitter...click here to read more]

According to country-fellow CH, safety plays a role too. "In England, you are much more likely to get harassed when you walk on the streets wearing inappropriate clothes. But the UAE is a very safe country. You will not be bothered that much."

"Security guards should be much stricter on enforcing these rules," finds Girlie, the Filipino girl working in the mall. "Sometimes I find my husband looking at a lady, and I cannot even blame him."

[Click here to read British envoy's advice to expats on UAE dress code]


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Comments

  • M. 5 September 2012 12:01 0 2
    C'mon ladies - this isn't a Beach Festival country all year long!
  • Melanie-Rose 5 September 2012 11:45 2 1
    Dubai Mall is the largest shopping mall in the world... In response to an earlier comment, Lingerie is meant to be used under your clothes...
  • armando mallari 13 June 2012 06:41 5 4
    UAE is a very good country to live with and we as expatriates should respect the country's laws and tradition. Proper dress code should be worn in order not to offend others, especially in the malls and other public places. We as expatriates should know how to behave and how to adapt to the environment that we are living with. We have to bear in mind that UAE is very accomodating to expatriates, we should not abused the kindness of our host country.
  • Rachel 23 May 2012 23:29 6 4
    If your skimpy outfits get scorned upon, even if it's normal in your own country, you should cover up and respect the local customs. If you don't like it why are you going to another country and intruding upon them?
  • Kaif 18 May 2012 13:29 5 8
    Both women and men should cover their thighs upto the knees.
  • Danushke 17 May 2012 23:16 4 4
    @Hind Al S. thank you so much for your honesty.
  • Arsh 17 May 2012 19:20 4 4
    Modesty is what demanded of the situation. Both sides should watch their way on how to handle this issue in public. Throwing shit upon each other is not the right attitude for either party. A considerate thought, a lenient approach to the matter is what is actually needed. Do demand if you secure the right of doing so but do be polite in the process. Respect should always be practiced, it is a must, and this does apply to even the women who demands modesty. There is always a way forward.
  • Hind Al S. / Mwa6nah 17 May 2012 17:04 29 14
    There is a lot of hypocrisy about this issue... Many local women routinely wear shorts dresses while on holidays in Europe... And most women stop wearing the Abaya when they travel there... I know it being Emirati myself. I'm 19 and I'm not bothered by women wearing short dresses and sexy outfits; only jealous, mean and bored women might be offended to the extent of taking such exaggerated actions...
  • Dr. CJ 17 May 2012 12:56 10 3
    I have been in UAE since 2004, and I still remember how both residents and tourists use to wear decently and a proper way. UAE security is great, but it should not become a reason for being less respectful for culture and traditions of the country, even if open minded.
  • Mohammad 17 May 2012 11:43 5 3
    UAE is very safe country... women can go around without any fear and that makes them to wear whatever they want. But please also note that this trend is now on decline, you won't see a lot of ladies with short or mini skirts or with tiny shirts as well.
  • Jerry Mathews 17 May 2012 11:31 11 14
    Let's all just not waste time over this issue. Let us all follow what the Arabs wear - Abaya and Thobe and close all shops which sell clothes other than these. Problem solved.
  • Aaliaa 17 May 2012 10:36 12 7
    Zaheeda and Izy, with all due respect, just beacuse the shops sell undergarments doesn't mean you walk around in them. There is a reason why people do not do that. The same way just because they sell short shorts and skirts, doesn't mean people can wear them anywhere they want. Moreover, this a Muslim country, you have respect the views of the Emirates women here.
  • Anne 17 May 2012 10:04 16 3
    Theres a phrase in English... When in Rome do as the Romans do... that would apply appropriately to the situation here.. I'm not a judgmental person... but expats need to realsze that if local women have a problem with anyone's indecent dressing they need to cover up more. At least in public places where there's a chance you might offend somebody. It IS their homeland after all...
  • Amal 17 May 2012 09:58 15 6
    To those of you suggesting they shouldn't sell them at malls... You can buy lingerie, bikinis and underwear at malls can't you? But you know the time and place to wear them.
  • Shima 17 May 2012 08:07 15 9
    All we want is decency for our families and children. This must start from airports along with other legal actions against people abusing this!
  • Shaima 17 May 2012 08:07 13 7
    Zakir and Zaheeda, With all my due respect, girls can still wear those clothes in a girls only gathering or at a night club! But not in public where the families are!
  • mo 17 May 2012 07:35 14 11
    No need for a debate. There should`nt be short dresses. Any lady who doesn`t like it should go back to her country and wear what she fancies.
  • Aminah 16 May 2012 22:19 11 5
    But some foriegn tourist the way they wear clothes is very daring... like wearing white pants without panty and white short without panty walking inside the mall.
  • Salwa 16 May 2012 21:13 12 6
    People, remember that decency begins at home and you not only represent yourselves but your parents, your upbringing, your culture and your respective countries.
  • Rebekah 16 May 2012 21:10 11 9
    Anything above the knee is indecent, as simple as that. When a lady sits, the skirt should cover the knees otherwise we all know what will be visible to the whole public.

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